neutrois person neutral gender identity neutrois neutrois https://lgbt-plus.fandom.com/wiki/Neutrois https://lgbtqia.fandom.com/wiki/Neutrois Despite many sites claiming an "H. A. Burnham" coining and using the term "neutrois" in 1995, the earliest example in the Internet Archive appears to be from 2000 (although presumably the term preceded that). Having a null or neutral gender (being neither male nor female), and having or seeking to have no or reduced signs of physical sex. I'm attracted to men, and being a neutrois/man, that makes me gay. But so what? I lived up to my lesbian reputation and tried it with a girl, once (well, we tried it a great deal more than just once). I'm not ashamed of that. What I'm ashamed of is not fighting as much as I should have. I should've stood up every f**king time. Even if I wasn't trans, I still had the right to act any way I chose and no one had any business telling me otherwise. I'm ashamed because I didn't go out for football. I'm ashamed because I didn't go to the prom in a tuxedo. I'm ashamed because I didn't know I was genderqueer, spent puberty being mistreated for being different, and slamming gays and lesbians to feel better. I can't apologize for hurting those people.. that's what shames me the most. Probably blend of French "neutre" (neuter, neutral) and "trois" (three, as in third gender). The earliest appearance of the term "neutrois" in any Usenet newsgroup is in a footer of a message posted by the user GoSpangs on 3 December 1996 (see here: https://groups.google.com/forum/message/raw?msg=soc.support.transgendered/ckLke9K-WtU/LuzuiVWEqTMJ). The footer also includes the name "Holly A. Burnham". gender neutrois neutrois gender identity neutre trois Holly A. Burnham The Transgender Language Primer LGBTQIA Resource Center Glossary Glossary of LGBTQ Terms Comprehensive* List of LGBTQ+ Vocabulary Definitions Lexicon (AVENwiki) The A – Z of Gender and Sexuality: From Ace to Ze