safe, sane, and consensual A phrase used in BDSM activities, noting that any activity undertaken should be safe, that all participants should be of sound mind in order to consent to that activity, and that all participants do actively and mutually consent. SSC committed compassionate consensual safe, sane & consensual safe, sane and consensual safe, sane, & consensual risk-aware consensual kink Glossary of LGBTQ Terms